Roadblocks that we overlook in an Indian woman’s journey towards entrepreneurship

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MSME Annual Report Analysis

Women have definitely made progress in the field of entrepreneurship in spite of all the gender discrimination they face on a day-to-day basis. But the concern here is in spite of the Government’s multiple schemes and initiatives for Micro, Small and Medium Enterprises (MSMEs) being in favour of women, we still see a huge gender gap in the progress. Why is it so?

While going through the Annual Report of MSME 2020-21, a particular statistic got me thinking. Let me put down the statistics here:

Taken from MSME’s Annual Report 2020-21

We can clearly see a huge gender gap there.

Also, I would like to bring to your attention an interesting point made in the report that mentions there was no significant deviation in this pattern (of the dominance of males in ownership in proprietary MSMEs) in urban and rural areas, although the dominance of male-owned enterprises was slightly more pronounced in urban areas compared to rural areas (81.58% as compared to 77.76%). If just education and access to technology were factors in women entrepreneurship, shouldn’t it be more pronounced in rural than urban? So what are we missing here? Think!

Sneak-peek into the lives of Indian urban women

Now let the statistics be on one side. Let me draw your attention to the picture of a few educated women’s lives living in urban areas who dream of being an entrepreneur.

Satya*– Age 37, married with two kids. A brilliant girl who had cleared her UPSC prelim in her 20’s, got married and is now a homemaker made to believe making 3 different breakfast types each day catering to the taste of her family members (and not hers) is all about being a woman.

Joy*– Age 28, an MBA grad from a prestigious institute. A self-made woman who had the ambition and a foolproof plan for her business idea fall in love with a wrong person who ends up stalking and blackmailing her for nothing wrong on her part. Confidence shattered and cynical of cyber security, she now prefers taking a 9-5 job.

Veda*– Age 35, mother of 2 kids, a free and independent woman prior marriage lives a life of a “parrot in a golden cage”, pampered but not set free. Even her dressing and choice(?) of not being on social media is a decision(!) made by her husband.

Shashi*– Age 40, a software engineer, an ex-data analyst, a mother to 2 teens, decides to upgrade her professional skills and make her entrepreneurial dream come true. The family accepts on one condition that she makes sure the prestige and peace of the household be intact by making sure she gives her due time and attention to take care of the elders at home and follows the customs of the family to a T. Most importantly, to make sure that the onus of household chores doesn’t fall as a burden on anyone else. She still chases her dream, registers her company, multitasks, toils day & night only to end up falling chronically ill just in the next 2 years.

The above women are not any fictional characters and you can easily find one in your family too. I hope this could have thrown light on the picture that we overlook.

Even in a recent episode of a Tamil talk show, social activist Smt.Oviya mentions how still women are trapped in the patriarchal mindset that there is a need for women to develop a business mindset. She goes on to mention that even when women come to register for MSME, there are many cases where women don’t even have a single utility bill in their name to proceed with the paper works.

The need for change

Social stigma, patriarchal mindset, women being bound to unpaid care work, cyber crimes against women- no matter how much ever she is educated or has access to technology- are all few factors that act as roadblocks in a woman’s entrepreneurial journey that we overlook.

Here, a man’s business is considered legit and even seen as a family business while a woman’s business is not; it’s mostly seen as her hobby. A successful woman is portrayed as one who could multitask striking the right balance between work and family while a man is not expected to strike such balance.

Gender biases should be eradicated. Unpaid care work should be shared and not seen just as a woman’s duty. Only then, a woman can scale in her entrepreneurial journey at an exponential rate.

The government may come with multiple schemes and banks may provide non-collateral loans but are we as a society ready to unlearn our cultural conditioning and biases that hold back our women at home?

“The best thermometer to the progress of a nation is its treatment of its women.”

– Swami Vivekananda 

*Names changed for privacy concerns.


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Raising Readers Campaign- Contest Details-Activity 1

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Raising Readers Campaign- Points to remember

Raising readers campaign has the sole vision of imbibing love for books & reading in kids and for that, there is a line of engaging activities coming up. Before we could get into the details of the activities we wish to clear a few things up:

  • This campaign is mainly for those who are yet to start reading for hobby. Reading school textbooks or reading as part of a curriculum is not considered as “reading for joy or for hobby”.  
  • Our target audience here is kids of the age group 0-10 years.
  • If your kid is above 10yrs and have not yet developed reading habit, then these activities can be useful for you too. Just that kids above 10yrs of age won’t be considered for the contest.
  • This is more of a campaign than a contest. The point here is to build a reading habit, a reading ritual over 4 weeks and provide tips to keep it sustainable. And every participating kid is a winner as they would have developed an interest in reading.

That said, the sole reason for keeping a contest as part of the campaign is to give direction and help you take this journey on a serious note.

  • Since this campaign is for those who are yet to start reading, it won’t certainly be right for us to entertain advanced readers (kids who are into independent and regular reading habit) even if they fall into the contest age group criteria.
  • Advance readers may try these activities if it interests them but participation may not be considered. We have something special for the advanced readers soon.
  • This contest may call for pictures and/or videos of kids while doing an activity and we want them to be candid and authentic. There’s no need for edited videos or ‘insta-worthy’ pics.
  • All we are looking to see through the pics/videos is the kid’s enthusiasm and progress. Remember slow progress is also a progress and there is no factor of comparison here.
  • Also, please note that by sending in pictures/videos as part of the campaign, you give us the right to use it on our website and social media handles for promotion. It’s purely to inspire others in the journey and nothing more.
  • We will be choosing the top entries from a place of authenticity keeping in mind the progress and enthusiasm shown by the kid & caretaker over the weeks and the Jury’s decision will be final.
  • The terms and conditions are subject to change at any time without any prior notice.

Contest Details

Let’s get into the much-awaited part- the contest! It’s going to be a Book Bingo!

  • We will have 5 activities spread over the weeks and the participants who complete all the tasks will be considered for the giveaway (it’s a surprise!).
  • Participants will be divided in the age groups of 0-3 yrs, 3-7yrs, and 7-10 yrs.
  • Every participant will receive a vibrant customized certificate of appreciation.

Activity 1: Developing a reading ritual

  • In the coming week, we wish to help you find your reading ritual. It can be 5mins of reading right after waking up or right before your bedtime.
  • Keep it simple. Starting with even 5mins will do but stick to the time.
  • Developing a reading ritual is about consistency and showing up every day.

Tips to help you find the best suited time for your child

  • Fix a time when you know your child is active and not fussy. You may want to avoid those times when your kid is hungry or cranky.
  • For little older kids, fix a time when they are free from school works.
  • Create an ambience. It can be as simple as switching off all gadgets or finding a silent yet bright corner to sit with a book.
  • Be present. If your child is not into reading yet and if you want them to start, then your presence matters. Even better, if you too can sit with a book to read.
  • Make sure to fix a time that you can follow every day precisely. It’s the consistency that helps building a habit.  

What to do for the contest

Raising Readers Ritual Sheet
Raising Readers Ritual Sheet
  • Get the above Raising Readers Ritual Sheet printed or you can even make it handwritten. Choice is yours.
  • Fix a time that’s comfortable for you and your kid and try sticking to it.
  • Mark the date and time every day (try being consistent) to see what timing suits you better.
  • Most importantly appreciate your kid’s effort by putting a star, smiley or icecream on the Kudos column.
  • Enter your kid’s name, age and the book(s) you are currently reading. It’s absolutely ok if your kid insists to read the same book every day.
  • Please keep it authentic. Be honest if you skip any day. No point in simply marking.
  • Over the week, as you get into a rhythm, try capturing a short 1 min video of you and your kid engaged in the reading activity. When you do so, email us at promisingpoetry5@gmail.com with the subject line as “Raising Readers Activity 1” and the name, picture (preferably passport size) and age of the kid.
  • Last date for sending in the video of the Activity-1 is 28th Nov, 2021.
  • For kids aged 0-3yrs it’s important that they touch and feel the book, explore the book, enjoy the pictures in it and listen to your read aloud. Your time with the kid matters.

That’s it for this week. It’s simple but remember what matters is consistency. We wish that you see this is as a journey, as an experience and not just as a contest. We will have a few videos and tips coming up on FB or Instagram or here. So stay tuned!

Happy Reading 🙂


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Raising Readers- How to develop a love for books & reading in kids

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Raising Readers- What is it?

Raising Readers is a 4 weeks long campaign to help kids develop a love for books & reading. The campaign is mainly addressed towards kids aged 0-10 years, their parents, teachers and caretakers. It is to help develop reading habits among kids in a sustained and enjoyable way with engaging activities and contest around books.

The need for building reading habit

You and I certainly know that how much time and space a variety of gadgets have taken from us in this fast-paced and digitalized era.

The Covid-19 pandemic has done enough from its side too to get everything done online, most importantly, children’s education. This being the scenario many of the children are spending a lot of time before their screens which we know is going to be harmful in the long run.

Also, we see that there is a decline in children’s reading habits. While reading for joy can help grow a happy and mindful child, the decline in reading habits becomes a cause of concern.

To revive the joy of reading among children, it’s important to catch them young. Kids should feel the joy of holding a book in hand, exploring the pages and venturing to new places that the stories take them to.

They need to feel that excitement and wonder that comes with a book. It’s with this notion that we came up with this campaign to help kids as well as their caretakers in finding resources and rhythm as well to get into the habit of reading.

Why Reading?

Before even getting into sharing tips and resources I wish to put across the importance of reading habits. It’s vital for you as a parent or caretaker to be convinced of its importance before you could help your child to get into reading habits.

You might ask that to keep a child away from gadgets there are many other options, hobbies or sports and so why specifically reading. Well, here are a few points from my personal experience with raising a reader that can convince you too:

Exercise for the mind

Like playing games is an exercise for the body, reading books is an exercise for the mind. It involves active involvement of the mind to grasp new concepts, wander in their world of imagination and thus helps in keeping the mind sharp.

We all want to stay young through appearance; why not stay young & sharp in mind too right?

Improves creativity

Books open up to different places, cultures, concepts and whatnot. This variety of information and stories that kids get access to helps in improving their creativity. It helps keep their wonder element, the spark-ignited & explore their own world of imagination and creativity.

Develop empathy

When kids read about different characters from different life situations, even if it’s fiction, they develop empathy. Their minds become open and it helps in not developing any prejudices in the longer run.

Enhances vocabulary

The variety in plots, storylines and writing styles in different books helps big time in enhancing the vocabulary of the reader. The best part of it is it happens subconsciously in the journey of reading even without taking any particular effort at improving vocabulary.

Better communication

Kids who read more, who grow up listening to more stories can communicate their emotions, their feelings much better. They do that either by speaking up for themselves or penning it down.

To find comfort in solitude

Reading books is a solitary activity & it helps kids find comfort in solitude. We find many kids being hyperactive these days (thanks to the lifestyle changes), the act of reading a book calms them down and mainly they learn to sit (you know what I mean if you have a hyperactive kid at home!) and engage by themselves.

Easier to access & carry a book

It’s clear, isn’t it? Moreover, when your kid is so into reading, they don’t even need a book. They start reading any piece of writing that they see anywhere and everywhere, including the ones coming in packaging!

Just for the joy of it

This is the most important reason that children should be gifted with books. The happiness to know that there is a character similar to them, the curiosity in knowing a character different from them, the wonderment when it comes to learning a new fact, about a new place, etc, all this can bring immense joy.

Books create their own world where they can just be- A WHOLE WORLD FOR THEMSELVES. JUST IMAGINE!

Can you sense the joy? If you are a reader yourself, you know what I mean. If not, it’s high time you too start reading.

Well, there are many more reasons to develop a reading habit but I guess these are more than enough to get you started in your journey of raising a reader.

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How to go about raising a reader?

Raising a reader might sound a tough task given that we are mostly surrounded by gadgets and kids are glued to screens. You may wonder how and where to start with. Or you have started but struggled to continue. In either case, we are here you help you with practical and doable tips and resources that can make the journey of raising a reader, enjoyable and sustainable.

In the next 4 weeks, we will cover various aspects of the journey and bring to you some awesome real-life incidents to inspire you.

All you have to do is stay tuned here or follow either of these pages on FB or Instagram or here.

There will be a contest and fun activities as part of this campaign. More details tomorrow.

Get yourself ready for a jolly reading ride with your tiny tot!


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Eye On You by Kanchana Banerjee- Book Review

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Book Details

I got this book as part of Blogchatter’s Book review program in exchange for an honest, unbiased review. So there you go with my thoughts and opinions on the book, Eye On You.

Title: Eye On You

Author: Kanchana Banerjee

Illustrator (Cover Design): Mishta Roy

Genre: Action/ Crime/Thriller

Type: E-book

Page Count: 188

Price: Free with Kindle Unlimited Subscription otherwise, INR 200

Blurb (as on Amazon)

You’re seen, tracked, and followed everywhere you go. Every line & picture you post; someone is watching. All that information in the wrong hands is a recipe for disaster.

You have a smart door, a CCTV; everything is controlled via an app on your mobile phone. All they need to do is to hack into your phone. Anyone can get in, anyone can see you inside your home.

How safe are you inside your home?

Myra is a young, independent, single working woman living in Gurgaon. After a party in her home, she wakes up the following morning and discovers that she has been raped. But she was at home, surrounded by her friends.

Who could have done this to her? Was it one of her friends or a stranger?

Book Review

The author, Kanchana Banerjee has vividly captured the threats that come along with the advancement of smart technologies and the follies of human beings with her engrossing writing.

The fact that this work of fiction, Eye On You, blurs the line between imagination and reality is what makes the thriller more gripping.

Myra, the protagonist, depicted as an affluent, independent woman sharing every passing moment on social media, finds herself raped in her bedroom the next morning after she throws an open house party. What ups the horror factor of the story is the fact that all those invited to the party were her friends.

The plot set in Gurgaon, one of India’s leading industrial and financial hubs, brings out the real picture of the society we live in now. One cannot take Myra or the other characters in the book lightly as some fictional characters as we can easily identify them with someone from our circle and that’s what leaves us wary.

How safe are we in a tech-driven world where every information, personal and official, is just one click away? Honestly, as someone who is always in a love-hate relationship with social media presence, this thriller just sent chills down my spine and I find myself navigating more towards a less/no social media approach.

Author’s writing style

As with the writing, the lucid language with highly detailed characters and plot description, the story just comes alive before you. The way the mystery unravels in this page-turner making us guess and second guess with every twist makes the book unputdownable.

The author finds the right balance in walking us through the emotions of the victim sensitively even while keeping the generally prevalent outlook on a rape victim raw. Very much relevant to our current lifestyle, this book makes for a must-read.

The author leaves the reader (especially women) with many questions on cybercrime, abuse, affluent lifestyles, the pros and cons of technological advancements, etc.

This book is certain to make you take one step back and assess if there’s genuinely the need for your social media handles and the use of smart technologies. Yes, this story makes you ponder beyond the plot.

Wrap up words

What I loved much in the book is the equally detailed descriptions of the characters other than the protagonist that helps the reader immerse themselves in the story, feel one among them and wear their detective hat.

Even while I found the plot slightly hurried and predictable towards the end, I still would recommend this book for the way it keeps the reader guessing and second-guessing since the start. Also, its relevance to the current time makes it a must-read.

Not to forget, the cover design by the illustrator Mishta Roy is well thought of, giving that creepy feeling and perfectly going with the storyline.

Also after reading the story, the title of the book makes even more sense with another interpretation of Eye On You as I On You. The choice of keeping it simply as ‘Eye’ (to sound similar to ‘I’, maybe) and not ‘Eyes’ or ‘An Eye’, makes me think so. If you have read the book you will know what I mean. Let me know if you feel the same too.

Content Warning

There are mention of obscenities that are unavoidable for the storyline and if descriptions of physical abuse trigger you, you may want to stay away. Also, make sure to close your kindle reader while pausing or leaving it alone; you may not want your kid to even accidentally have an eye on it.

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Blogchatter- Bloggers’ Best Bet for Networking & Earning

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If you are a beginner to the blogging world, wanting to earn but shy away from networking or actively using social media, then this is for you.

As bloggers, we start with the hope to be seen. We jump into blogging with the idea that our articles be read and shared instantly. But the ground reality hits hard when we see no visibility for the post for which we laboured in hours. That’s when networking comes to play.

Given the popularity of social media platforms for instant connections, shares and likes, we might think networking is not a big deal. But let me tell you that intentional and healthy networking for bloggers should mean looking beyond those Instagram connections and story shares.

One of the best and dynamic Indian platforms that connect bloggers under one roof is Blogchatter. It helps in better networking and engaging with fellow bloggers with a variety of options. There is something for everyone and you can very easily find and grow your community for better learning and for better reach, of course.

As someone who prefers listening over talking and being alone over partying, networking wasn’t my cup of tea. Also, being an ITP warrior, I’m generally not left with much energy for social media presence too. So right when I was wondering how to get into intentional networking, I chanced upon Blogchatter.

What makes Blogchatter the best bet and a personal favourite is its versatility. Not all bloggers come with the same purpose and same skill sets. While some may blog for a hobby, some do it for business or as a part of learning. While some may be good at long posts, some may steal the show with short video captures. While some bet on SEO, some swear by social media presence. Blogchatter makes every blogger feel seen and heard.

Blogchatter with its carefully crafted features always comes up with campaigns, challenges and contests that are well-curated keeping in mind the dynamism of the blogger world. This gives each blogger the freedom to have their own approach and also find their tribe.

Even if you are an introvert like me, their campaigns like Blogchatter half marathon, book review programs, reading challenge and the easiest of all blogroll submissions can help you get started with networking.

Even while being very less active, being part of the campaigns has helped with the visibility of my website. But the best part is being able to discover like-minded people and their amazing writings. Discovering different styles of writing and also posts from niches outside of ours is an added advantage exclusive of being part of the Blogchatter community.

If you are someone full time into blogging and are an extrovert with social media presence being your strength, Blogchatter’s time to time contest, Twitter threads and their most –favoured #MyFriendAlexa are something that you certainly don’t want to miss.

Well, while visibility alone can give us the boost, Blogchatter gives its community the high of earning money too. You can either choose to just read a book or read and review it; write a single guest post or pen multiple posts for a marathon; write for a cause or for the sheer joy of writing or just do it all to earn money.

The Blogchatter team knows how to bring the best to the blogger world and individual bloggers too. Being a part of the Blogchatter community has been one of my best decisions and this post would just mean my gratitude to them. (This is not a sponsored post!)

So if you are reading this and are yet to join the Blogchatter community, I must say, you are missing out on the best of the blogging world.

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Pinkoo Shergill Pastry Chef- Book Review

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Pinkoo Shergill is here to take you on a fantabulously yummilicious ride, treating you with his delicacies filled with ingredients of humour, love and friendship.

Pinkoo, the 10-year-old boy breathes, dreams and lives for baking while his Papaji is conditioned to believe the kitchen is not for boys to step in. How Pinkoo overcomes all the hurdles to enter the Great Junior Bake-a-Thon with an unexpected surprise waiting at the end is what the story is about.

Even while the story rides on the wheels of humour, it is certainly anchored in sensibility slamming stereotypes then and there. To do so without sounding preachy, to be able to talk in the language of children is the biggest plus of the book.

The characters are well defined and much relatable. The blabbermouth cousin Tutu, the supportive friend Manu, the annoying-girl-turned-friendly Nimrat are all very much liked by my daughter as she could relate to one of each from her own friends’ circle.

My daughter, Miss M was fascinated about the joint family set-up and the Punjabi way of addressing the relatives. Also, the generous use of onomatopoeias (like buuuzzz, pinggg, whooosh) and telescopic words (like giganterous, coolsome, irritatinnoying) caught her fancy at once and now she has her own list of such words.

Drawing of unicorn cupcakes by my daughter
Drawing of unicorn cupcakes by my daughter
Drawing of unicorn cupcakes by my daughter

What you see above is some Pinkoo Shergill inspired cakes and cupcakes drawn by my daughter. Also yes, she is a big-time unicorn fan!

My personal favourite happens to be the conversations between Pinkoo’s and Tutu’s eyes.

Yeah right, conversation between eyes! They have a dialogue going. I told you, this book is hilarious.

A word of caution: The book takes you through a ride of yummilicious cake preparations, all so drool-worthy and is best enjoyed with at least a cupcake or gulabjamun by your side.

The author, Vibha Batra, has kept the language simple making it for a quick fun-filled read. She has also filled in the story with a plethora of action words and fancy adjectives that is certain to catch the fancy of young readers. It can also come in handy for teachers too to introduce the same in a fun way through the story.

The only minus I see in the book is the overuse of capitalizations which felt sore to my adult eyes though I’m not sure if I can call it a minus as my daughter found it just fine.

The cover page by the illustrator Shamika Chaves is vibrant and beautiful. The exaggerated expressions in the sketches inside adds to the humour.

Additionally, the quirky doodles in the first and last pages can actually turn up as a colouring activity for kids (idea courtesy, Miss.M).

Altogether, Pinkoo Shergill makes for a quick fun read with ingredients of humour, love and friendship added in the right proportions making the story a relishing experience. The large typesetting makes it easier for beginners or for those who are just transitioning from picture books to chapbooks.

P.S. Don’t miss out on the creativity of the author come out even in the acknowledgements at the end.

You can buy a copy of the book here.

Book Title: Pinkoo Shergill Pastry Chef

Author: Vibha Batra

Illustrator: Shamika Chaves

Publisher: Scholastic India

Type: Paperback

Age Group: 7+

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Gitanjali by Rabindranath Tagore -Book Review

A collection of poetry to be experienced than talked about

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Introduction to Gitanjali

You may think that you consume poetry consciously but there may come along a book, like Gitanjali, where poetry will consume you, wholly, making you feel both lost and found, leaving you with a gratified feeling.

It’s with a feeling of reverence and fondness that I attempt at writing about this book. This book is one that I don’t want to view from a reviewer’s lens. Though this post may be tagged under the category of a book review, let me be clear that this is not a book review.

This is more like a childlike joy of sharing a found treasure with friends. This is exactly that.

Rabindranath Tagore’s Gitanjali is a treasure to be shared and enjoyed, consumed and let be consumed, discussed in platforms and yet relished in silence.

Written by the Bengali poet Rabindranath Tagore, Gitanjali (which translates to “Song Offerings”) is a collection of translated poems of Tagore’s collection of Bengali poems titled Gitanjali. Well, the Bengali collection had 157 poems while the English translated collection has only 103 poems.

The collection of poems captures the conversations of the poet with God in its profoundness even while keeping the language simple. It’s the simplicity in which Tagore brings out hope and the possibility to have conversations with God that makes it extraordinarily beautiful.

The poet Rabindranath Tagore won the Nobel Prize for Literature for Gitanjali in the year 1913 which put Indian Literature in high regard across the world.

Where the mind is without fear

I was introduced to Tagore’s work in my school through this poem “Where the mind is without fear” from Gitanjali

Where the mind is without fear and the head is held high;
Where knowledge is free;
Where the world has not been broken up into fragments by narrow domestic walls;
Where words come out from the depth of truth;
Where tireless striving stretches its arms towards perfection;
Where the clear stream of reason has not lost its way into the dreary desert sand of dead habit;
Where the mind is led forward by thee into ever-widening thought and action
Into that heaven of freedom, my Father, let my country awake.

This poem, written by the visionary during the period when the British ruled India, at first looked like written as a yearning for freedom from slavery. But what made me feel relevant even now, making it a timeless classic is that it yearns for freedom from our very own limitations of the mind. 

This poem and all of the other poems in Gitanjali too helps work on an individual level of freedom.

As a nation, we might be free from the shackles of slavery seeing progress in the fields of science, technology, medicine, sports, etc. But are we free from discrimination at the grassroots levels?

Do we even realize what freedom of mind may actually mean?

Gitanjali gently nudges us to question ourselves leading us to the heaven of freedom where the heaven is found just within us, where God sits right inside of us making conversations with Him possible, right now.

Gitanjali-Biggest influence on my poetry (and life) journey

As mentioned in one of my previous posts, Rabindranath Tagore’s Gitanjali is one of the biggest influences on my poetry (and life) journey and honestly, I don’t remember how I landed up with this book. But one thing that I clearly remember is that the very first poem in it had me in tears. Here is that piece:

Thou hast made me endless, such is thy pleasure,
This is my prayer to thee, my Lord-strike,
strike at the root of penury in my heart,
Clouds heap upon clouds and it darkens

Thou hast made me endless, such is thy pleasure
Thou hast made me endless, such is thy pleasure.
This frail vessel thou emptiest again and again,
and fillest it ever with fresh life.

This little flute of a reed thou hast carried over hills and dales,
and hast breathed through it melodies eternally new.
At the immortal touch of thy hands
my little heart loses its limits in joy
and gives birth to utterance ineffable.

Thy infinite gifts come to me
only on these very small hands of mine.
Ages pass, and still thou pourest,
and still there is room to fill.
— Tagore

More interestingly, I couldn’t move on to the rest of the poems and I didn’t force myself to do so too. I sat with the poem.

Some poems come to you to prepare you for an intense experience

while some others come in as an assurance that your path is headed the right way.

Gitanjali has poems that make me feel both ways.

A relationship with God

More often or so, our relationship with God stems from fear or an obligation or a traditional practice but this anthology will make one seek God from a space of love.

There are times when the complexities of life may drain us, making life a dreadful solo journey. But one read of even one poem from Gitanjali can make you feel comfortable assuring that it needn’t be a solo journey while He is by your side.

Tagore brings in the beauty and joy of having an honest relationship with God through his lines effortlessly and efficiently.

I ask for a moment's indulgence to sit by thy side. The works that I have in hand I will finish afterwards.
Away from the sight of thy face my heart knows no rest nor respite, and my work becomes an endless toil in a shoreless sea of toil.
To-day the summer has come at my window with its sighs and murmurs; and the bees are plying their minstrelsy at the court of the flowering grove.
Now it is time to sit quiet, face to face with thee, and to sing dedication of life in this silent and overflowing leisure.

- Tagore in Gitanjali

Ain’t it just amazing? I sometimes feel that kids have such conversations easily while we as adults lose the connection with God because of our learned ignorance. Kids keep it simple like this conversation in the poem above. They say their fears openly, approach and own God which we as adults fear to do, afraid of being judged.

Gitanjali makes those real-time conversations with God possible and helps experience the childlike joy that comes with believing in magic and being open to it.

On another note, I would also love for you to listen to the song below penned by Tagore (not from Gitanjali though) which gives one the hope and courage to make the right choices and walk alone if the right thing is to stay away from a wrongful crowd.  

What makes Gitanjali a must read

This book has an introduction to Gitanjali by the Irish poet W B Yeats is more than enough of a reason to make Gitanjali a must-read. Yeats’ introduction clearly shows his fascination for the mysticism in Tagore’s poems and calls it the work of a supreme culture.

Where most of the divisions and discriminations creep into society out of a religious divide, this anthology has the power of changing perspectives working on an individual level to free us from such limitations.

Even for an atheist, this book has an appeal as there’s no definite portrayal of God here and it’s more of an abstraction and personification. And the poems can make one easily personify God the way they want or simply relate it to an idea they believe in.

It’s more of an experience than a depiction. It’s more of a personal belief than a traditional practice.

Gitanjali helps you shift from a religious trip to a spiritual voyage with hope and love as comfort.

Concluding Notes

Our prayers end in a hurry, we take time to do rituals but not the time to sit alone to contemplate or have a conversation with God. We don’t even think about the possibility of having a conversation with God.

We distance ourselves from God not knowing of His residence just right in our hearts. Gitanjali helps you find Him, fall in love and make Him your forever friend.

We do things out of fear but not with an open-mindedness to seek, to be called wrong and to learn right from the wrong. We forget to learn to unlearn. And it can be hard from a lot of conditioning since birth but that is where Tagore’s Gitanjali comes in as a gentle nudge and a comforting blanket.

Some poems come to you to prepare you for an intense experience

while some others come in as an assurance that your path is headed the right way.

Gitanjali has poems that can make you feel both ways.

P.S. Not every poem in Gitanjali has to be read in one go. Nor every poem of Gitanjali may appeal to you all at once. It is a growing experience.

Sit alone with one poem at a time and experience the magic it brings along. I bet, it will grow upon you and the poems will start talking to you (not necessarily in the same order of writing) right at the time when you least expect it.

Find a copy of Gitanjali here.

Happy experiencing Gitanjali.


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Swatantra- A Poem on Independence

The Song of Swatantra

Swatantra is not just about the title of the poem. It’s not just another Independence poem. It’s about the motherland, the land, the mother, you and me, and us all together. Hope you find yourself in Swatantra, become one and feel free from all boundaries and conditioning.

This poem is an attempt for you to seek Independence from within. To ask yourself every now and then if you are really free? What binds you? What makes you feel Independent?

Do you feel swatantra at the soul level? If yes, then don’t shy away from singing this Song of Swatantra, happy & high! If not, just ask why?

Let’s own & celebrate Independence every day, consciously 🙂

Happy Independence Day 🙂

I can be the barren land-isolated
or a fertile field-decorated
deep inside lies my untouched soul
the essence of being immortal

From dust I become-to end
into the dust, a cycle of pretend
in ‘tween, a soul-free, identity independent
singing the song of freedom, eternally coherent

The shackles of your conditioning
never do they define my being
I stretch, I flow, I change yet forever glow
in the gentle breeze, even in a stormy blow

In lying bare or in clothing finery
naked truth being my only accessory,
I pride myself on telling my history 
for in the roots of this land lies my glory

I might be your survival food or savouring feast
Yet don’t you dare label me beauty or beast
Neither food nor feast, neither beauty nor beast
I’m the solitary soul you know the least

I’m the universe I’m the atom
My spirit undivided in a stratum
It’s not in you to bind me 
For I’m free, I’m free, I’m free

From dust I become-to end
into the dust, a cycle of pretend
in ‘tween, a soul-free, identity independent
singing the song of freedom, eternally coherent

I’m the universe I’m the atom
My spirit undivided in a stratum
It’s not in you to bind me 
For I’m free, I’m free, I’m free

I’m free
I’m free
I’m free

For the spoken word version of the poem, click below:



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Just Fair and Unfair

A poem with vision


They know not
colours that we percieve-
every little colour
in their world
being just fair and unfair...

They know not
to raise a riot,
with colours
whilst choosing new cycle
 as dad offers...

They know not
to break the heart
of a smart dusky lady
as she waits with hope
to be his choice for a wedlock...

They know not
to raise an issue
plinth on colour discrimination,
as they raise high
with powers from designation...

They know not
to go green with envy
 sigh feeling blue
to earn by yellow journalism
nor to go red out of rage...

They know not
the colour of the people
changing chameleons
for their eyes deeply set
hasn't got the vision right...

They know not,
colour that we perceive-
 every little colour
in their world
being just fair and unfair...

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Every Storm Brings Along a Calm, Thereafter

A cento poem

While poetry in itself can have undertones, giving us various perspectives, a cento poem goes further ahead to bring on an entirely new dimension.

A cento poem is nothing but a collage poem with lines picked up from other sources of poetry/prose to combine and come up with patched-up poetry. It is total fun and also challenging.

To come up with a cento poem, one must read many other poems/prose pieces and come up with an idea or central theme that can hold the lines from various sources under one theme.

Here’s a cento poem that I came up with during an advanced poetry writing workshop. Hope you enjoy it. Also, I have mentioned the sources from which these lines are taken, at the end. To make the flow seamless, I have also added few lines from my side 🙂

Every Storm Brings Along a Calm, Thereafter

My desires are many and my cry is pitiful,  
My body's wisdom tells and tells again  
A voice inside, briefly, soothing the pain-
“These men bearing flags were thirsty for love.”

There was never a consent, nothing of me
They grow on me like leaves on a tree.

“That virus is not for you 
They decayed before they were born”
nothing can mend, I’m already torn.

They never seem to stop their coming,
They grow on me like leaves on a tree,
There was never a consent, nothing of me
That I shall find my rest, my sleep, my peace
the voice fountains, thrusting brevity at ease...

“The infinite knows what you hunger for
Ask Him to carry you across”
My conflicting mind dives into a pause
From a silence, somewhere deep within.

Strength surmounts, knowing whom to let in
saving me from perils of weak, uncertain desire.

“Day by day thou art making me worthy
 of thy full acceptance”- I surrender
For men may come and men may go, 
but I go on forever…


List of poems the verses are taken from; numbered per the flow of poem:

  1. “Strong Mercy”, from Gitanjali by Rabindranath Tagore.
  2. “Relationship” by Kamala Das.
  3. Self
  4. “Thirsty for love” by Pragya Bhagat
  5. Self
  6. “Words” by Kamala Das
  7. Taken from the book of Bhakti Poetry Eating God, edited by Arundhathi Subramaniam. This particular verse is taken from Lal Ded’s poetry and translated by Ranjit Hokote.
  8. “Thirsty for love” by Pragya Bhagat
  9. Self
  10. “Words” by Kamala Das
  11.  “Words” by Kamala Das
  12. Self
  13. “Relationship” by Kamala Das.
  14. Self
  15. Taken from the book of Bhakti Poetry Eating God, edited by Arundhathi Subramaniam. This particular verse is taken from Lal Ded’s poetry and translated by Ranjit Hokote.
  16. Taken from the book of Bhakti Poetry Eating God, edited by Arundhathi Subramaniam. This particular verse is taken from Lal Ded’s poetry and translated by Ranjit Hokote.
  17. Self
  18. “Words” by Kamala Das
  19. Self
  20. “Strong Mercy”, from Gitanjali by Rabindranath Tagore.
  21. “Strong Mercy”, from Gitanjali by Rabindranath Tagore.
  22. “Strong Mercy”, from Gitanjali by Rabindranath Tagore.
  23. “The Brook” by Alfred Lord Tennyson
  24. “The Brook” by Alfred Lord Tennyson

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